How many of us likes Joseph’s story in Genesis 37/39?
I love how Joseph stayed true to God in the different situations of his life; how God came through for him after many years of deprivation, and how he forgave his wicked brothers so easily and even secured a good future for them and their children. Honestly, I love every part. But then, studying through the passage again, I feel the story may not necessarily follow this line had Joseph not been so carefree with his relationship with his brothers and father to an extent.
Of course God has a way of making things work together for good to those who love him and are called according to His purpose but here’s a food for thought for us.
Let's say I had the opportunity to hold an interview with him. After testifying of how blessed I was by his story I’m most likely going to ask him these questions:
- When you gave bad reports of your brothers to your dad, did you think they would like you for it? Also,
- Papa Jacob was showering you with all that love and attention, didn’t you think envy will ensue. What did you do about it?
- ‘They hated you and could not speak peacably to you’, didn’t you notice?
- Why then, did you still give these same people a load down details of your God-given vision?
My reason for asking these is cause even the littlest of kids can tell when someone likes him or not, talkless of a big boy (probably in his teens). I mean, we know when people can not talk peacably to us and we all agree it’s not a good sign.
I think Joe chose to ignore this very important detail.
We are in a world where strife and hate still have its footstool. No matter how 'family' a person is, we should be careful how much of our dreams and vision we share with them especially when they can't speak 'peaceably' with us.
Do not choose to be ignorant when you see them acting strangely to you. Many will try to talk you out of it, others will find ways to see that you don't succeed. You can't share your vision with these kind of people.
Wisdom is profitable to direct;
Let's borrow King Saul's wisdom on this matter;
Saul and his servant set out to go find their missing donkeys, then they decided to meet prophet Samuel to give them a word about their whereabouts. But Samuel had more to say; Saul would become the first king of Israel!
On getting home, check out this conversation;
"Then Saul’s uncle said to him and his servant, “Where did you go?” So he said, “To look for the donkeys. When we saw that they were nowhere to be found, we went to Samuel.” And Saul’s uncle said, “Tell me, please, what Samuel said to you.” So Saul said to his uncle, “He told us plainly that the donkeys had been found.” But about the matter of the kingdom, he did not tell him what Samuel had said." - 1 Samuel 10: 14 - 16
Why did Saul not tell about the king prophecy? My best guess is this uncle doesn't necessarily have good thoughts for Saul.
I'm not trying to say we should not trust our family, but still, let's be discerning and wise enough to know who and who not to commit our life issues with.
God advised to write out our vision so people can run with us to achieve. Please note these are people who are on their mark already.
Let's take note and watch it!